Yep, Fallen you are on the money..
Exactly what I am after so when you are logged onto imvu you are invisible to other's in your list or others you have chatted with etc etc..
I love my friends & mates but sometimes I just want to be online & not to be known I'm online, you know sometimes ya not in the mood for a chat & I hate being rude...lol
I like that to Tony, thanks for the link man!
cheers
deadlee