Yesterday, I was taking a girl I liked into an imvu chatroom for date. Then, the some of the people started to make fun of me and the girl. When it comes to bullies, I try to not react, but when they insulted the girl, it really made me angry, so I started to insult those people back, but, then the girl left. When I tried to message her, she had blocked me. That hurt. I understand it is a game, it still hurt.

How can handle people who make fun ? Particularly when I am with my date ?

Thank you very much.

If someone makes fun of me, I compliment myself out loud, so everyone can hear it. Practice every now and then ... have a few compliments lined up. Same works for your friend. If someone makes fun of her, counter it with an out of this world compliment about how amazing she is. Trust me, she won't remember those assholes making fun of her, she'll just remember her confident prince charming and how sweet he is.

Throwing insults back and fourth just makes everyone angry and feeling shitty. When the world throws something negative at you, counter it with something positive. The world will be a better, brighter, happier place.


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If this is a repeat issue with the same bully over and over again, see this guide on how to deal with an IMVU bully, permanently : viewtopic.php?f=2&t=1395&hilit=bully

Also, here is a tool for muting a bully in chat if you just want to ignore them: viewtopic.php?f=179&t=8013&hilit=+IMVULite

It is envy brother... Most of the times I have received insults is when I am with a girl or with my family... I laugh at them and make a fool of them and sometimes they even like me and send me requests...

ignore, thats better than any option, if the person is mature, they will understand that you don't like them once you've ignored them

Yes ignore them or take your date to a different room..

Don't the lite and PRB clients both have the mute option ? That is a perfect way to just make people completely "vanish" out of your life while you;re in the room, and not to mention you are protected from the aftermath, meaning they trying to spam or crash you out of spite ?
I recommand that as a viable option, since time and energy are precious, and there's no point in wasting either on people that don't deserve yours.

Here's the thing. People are pretty darn ignorant and their goal is to really hurt you and get the best of your feelings and who you are. I have a suggestion for you. Instead of getting upset or trying to find a way to get back at them, ignore them. They will begin to realize, "Oh they ain't listenin". It will let them understand that putting their insecurities on other people obviously didn't and won't work. It will make them feel like garbage for attempting to hurt someone other then getting help on their own. Its sad how the world has developed but instead of feeding into the ignorance prove that you're stronger and that they can try to put you down all you want.

Here's a couple of combats
"You're only mad because you are unsatisfied at what you see when you look in the mirror"
"Speak for yourself"
"Sorry, I didn't know you felt that way about yourself"
"One moment, if you don't mind helping me look for when I ever gave a shit"
"You need a thesaurus or something. It seems like you've been having trouble expanding your vocabulary"

Show them that you are smart and they are dumb. Try hitting them in the face with intelligence instead of ignorance. Treat people they way they SHOULD'VE been treated. Looks like them "kids" need some sense knocked into them

I find just ignore them because they will feel how stupide they look in the room when no one acknowledges them. Your on a date and able go to whisper and let your date know your their for them and if there ok or would like to go some place else. If you cant whisper use your in box and send a message that way. In most rooms today there are mods. Save chat if you need to and get a hole of the mode to boot them out or room owner if there a big problem and have them block them from room for awhile to teach them to grow up. All this can be done in private.